Rare is the parent who has never just lost it and yelled at their kid. Also rare: a parent who hasn’t felt bad about yelling at their kid after doing so. That’s natural, she says—but not worth harping ...

Here are some powerful, effective tips from my book 10 Days to a Less Defiant Child to help you avoid the yelling trap with your child or teen. 1. Be an active listener. If you are in a conflict, draw ...